Quiet
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Quiet

While quiet quitting has become a phenomenon, being quiet has gotten lost in the noise of everyday life.

Near my home is a network of trails through the forest. I like to walk my dog there in the morning. Often, I don’t see another person or dog, but I hear the birdsong and listen for quiet.

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What is your purpose?
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

What is your purpose?

A sense of purpose improves our emotional, behavioral, and physical well-being. It profoundly affects our sense of fulfillment and longevity. So, what is your purpose?

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Why we seek purpose?
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Why we seek purpose?

Having a sense of purpose is like having an internal compass that guides decisions, motivates actions, and even provides meaning to life.

Taking care of children can instantly align us with our purpose so that our intentional choices reflect what matters most.

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Pride
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Pride

Recently, I traveled to Norway where Pride flags fly in every city and town. The pervasive display of Pride flags clearly signals the country’s commitment to inclusion and equality. It serves as a visual reminder of the progress made in LGBTQ+ rights and the ongoing efforts to create safe, welcoming environments for all.

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How is your sleep?
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

How is your sleep?

Maybe it’s the winds of spring or the constant “Breaking News” emails filling my inbox; whatever the cause, I’m feeling distracted, and it’s impacting my sleep. A strategy I’ve been trying to fall asleep is cognitive shuffling.

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Groundlessness
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Groundlessness

My go-to guide when I feel groundless is When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times by Pema Chodron (1997). The title is from the first verse of "The Second Coming," a 1919 poem by Irish poet W. B. Yeats. Both are about experiencing groundlessness as a profound journey into the heart of uncertainty.

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You Are Your Story Revisited
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

You Are Your Story Revisited

On the anniversary of the founding of my coaching practice, I’m reposting the first blog I published. It is a natural follow-up to my previous blog, Authoring Experience.

It all begins with an idea. Maybe, you want to make a change or take on a new challenge. Maybe, you feel stuck or that life is overwhelming. Whatever your story, the way you tell it makes a big difference. Your story is your identity and brand. It is who you are.

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Authoring Experience
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Authoring Experience

In times of confusion and uncertainty, expressive writing can be a helpful tool for making sense of our thoughts and emotions. By putting pen to paper, we create a safe space to explore our inner landscapes without judgment.

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Art of Subtraction
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Art of Subtraction

Feeling the need for more fulfillment and productivity in your organization or life? Subtraction can be a powerful tool to guide us.

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What is Enso?
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

What is Enso?

What is Enso? It is a Japanese word that means "circular form” and a visual cue reminding us that challenges are part of a larger journey and lead to growth. #personalgrowth#fulfillment#resilience

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Have a Compass?
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Have a Compass?

A clear, doable, and viable purpose for our lives and organizations is like having a compass. Both a compass and purpose provide direction, allowing us to navigate challenges and transitions with a sense of intention. They show us whether we are on course or need to make adjustments.

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How Do You Love?
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

How Do You Love?

How do you show who you love how much you love them? 💕 Love is an active choice made each day.

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Change Cycle
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Change Cycle

With January in the rearview mirror, where do you want to be a year from now? Do you want to make a change or take on a new challenge? Do you want to feel more fulfilled or are you content?

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Action Planning
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Action Planning

The Talking Heads asked, “Well, how did I get here?” How do you get from here to there?

You’ve set a goal for yourself. Now what? Often, goals are based on an aspiration, an abstract idea of what we want to do or be. We start with good intentions then feel overwhelmed by the distance to our goal.

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Write To Know
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Write To Know

Joan Didion famously said, “I don’t know what I think until I write it down.” For many years, I taught writing and asked my students to write until they discovered something they did not already know. The act of writing to know is what has driven humans for centuries as we seek to understand ourselves and our worlds.

To write to know is to engage in a pursuit of understanding, exploration, and discovery. It is an invitation to explore ideas, emotion, and experiences that stimulate insight and intellectual curiosity.

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To New Beginnings
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

To New Beginnings

As a new year dawns, I’d like to focus on new beginnings and turn to poetry for inspiration.

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Flow
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Flow

Have you ever become so immersed in your work that time passes without even noticing? Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi (1934-2021), a Hungarian-American psychologist and a co-founder of the field of positive psychology, developed the concept of “flow” to describe a state of mind where people are so immersed in an activity that they are highly focused, productive, and fulfilled.

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Managing Change
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Managing Change

Managing change and transition is a critical skill in both personal and professional spheres. As individuals and organizations encounter evolving circumstances—such as career shifts, relocations, or significant life events—navigating the uncertainties that accompany these changes can be challenging.

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Gratitude Power
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Gratitude Power

What are you grateful for? Did you know that answering this simple question can change how you feel?

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Goal Setting
Debra Holloway Debra Holloway

Goal Setting

Last year, my husband and I wanted to hike from the Eiger to the Matterhorn in Switzerland. We set this goal to see a part of Europe we had never visited. Having a goal helped us stay motivated to hike 200 miles.

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