Pride
The Pride of Norway — photos by Debra Holloway
Recently, I traveled to Norway where Pride flags fly in every city and town. The pervasive display of Pride flags clearly signals the country’s commitment to inclusion and equality. It serves as a visual reminder of the progress made in LGBTQ+ rights and the ongoing efforts to create safe, welcoming environments for all.
This widespread support highlights the importance of cultural openness in fostering positive social, cultural, and organizational change and the power of symbols in public spaces to communicate a shared value system that promotes a sense of belonging.
In contrast, before leaving on the trip, a political group in my town complained about our public library offering a program focused on “fostering understanding, empathy, and belonging for LGBTQ+ youth and adults.” The library’s Board of Trustees called an emergency meeting and voted to cancel the event due to “safety concerns.”
In response, townspeople organized a peaceful rally in support of the library and LGBTQ+ community members. The outpouring of support in-person, on social media, and in letters to the local media prompted the trustees to reverse their decision. They allowed the program to take place at the library, but without the Library’s sponsorship.
The Trustees who voted to cancel the event and the political group refuse to acknowledge that identity and sexuality are fundamental to human existence. We begin experiencing both at an early age. Being LGBTQIA+ is not a “lifestyle choice” or “an ideology,” as they claim. Being LGBTQIA+ is who people are. As Lady Gaga sings, we are born this way.
Human differences and variety are fundamental to our biological resilience and cultural richness. These differences—from genetics to identity and sexuality—serve as the foundation for adaptability, innovation, and communal strength. Without recognizing and valuing diversity, societies risk stagnation and loss.
Since ancient times, literature and the arts have explored the complexities of identity and sexuality, providing insights into human experience and fostering empathy across generations. Many works housed in our public library delve into these themes, reflecting the ongoing human dialogue about who we are and how we relate to one another. In embracing this diversity, these books not only preserve cultural heritage but also challenge readers to engage thoughtfully with difference, ultimately supporting personal growth and societal progress.
Last night, my youngest daughter, husband, and I attended the allyship program at our library. Before we went, I asked my daughter to put a pride flag in our yard. She placed it at the entrance of our driveway. Maybe this year, our town will be awash in rainbows of pride this June.